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Are you ready for another interview? Well, I've got an encouraging one for this month! This month I had the privilege of interviewing the lovely, Livvy from
A Daughter's Heart. We have a lot to cover, so without further ado...I give you the third interview in "A Peek Into Our Sister's Lives". I hope you enjoy and if you would, please leave me a quick comment to let me know what your thoughts are about it after you've read it. Thanks so much! :)
Emily: Livvy, can you tell us a little bit about yourself, family, and current life, for those who don’t read your blog?
Livvy: Certainly! I am a 16 (nearly 17) year old young woman, living in my father’s house under his protection and guidance. I have had the joy and peace of the Lord in my heart for almost 14 years now. I have been homeschooled my entire life, and I wouldn’t want it any other way! As a matter of fact, I am preparing to graduate this Autumn/Winter.
My family consists of my two dear parents, my 19 year old brother Mike {who is also my best friend}, then myself, my twin sisters Emily & Ivey who are 14, little brother Gabriel who is 9, Ella who is 5, and our rough-and-tumble boy, Levi, is 2.
We live together on a little hobby farm in Georgia where we raise chickens, goats, dogs, cats, pigs, a horse, a milk cow, and honeybees. Living on a farm adds so much to our lives. It is a wonderful opportunity to study God’s awesome creation while watching & helping an animal give birth, extracting bountiful, luscious honey from our hive, taking in-depth studies on the local flora & fauna, exploring enchanting woods and creeks, and becoming more self-sufficient every day.
In case it’s not obvious *wink*, my life is always full and never boring! Living in a big family just adds to the joy and beauty of it all. Not an hour goes by that I don’t laugh at something one of my precious siblings say, something Mike shows me, an event that happened weeks before, or just because. I love this life the Lord has blessed me with! Sometimes I just look around in absolute awe at how blessed I am, and what a beautiful, incredible life I have!
Emily: What about being a servant to your family? What has helped you in being content during this time in your life? (maidenhood, training to be a homemaker, etc.)
Livvy: To start off, I’m a great sinner, in need of my Savior’s mercy and grace. I’m selfish and self-centered by nature, which can be a great stumbling block when it comes to being a stay-at-home daughter, serving my family from my position within it. If I start to let a little sinful thought grab hold of me and begin to grow and fester, it leads to ghastly consequences. Such as the “me” trend you see everywhere. If I start thinking in terms of “I have no time for myself or my interests.” or “Everyone leaves everything for me to do!” {the latter said very dramatically}, this will lead to me viewing my family as a drudgery that I have to wake up to every morning, to feed, care for, clean up after, etc . until I’m completely miserable and depressed. I will utterly miss out on the blessings of serving others, and enjoying my family, simply because I thought I didn’t have enough time for myself. It causes strife and tension in our home, and puts a strangling grip on everyone. Regrettably, this terrible plight seems to be one of the easiest traps to fall into.
After my own pity-party, I start to look around and see how incredibly foolish and thoughtless I’ve been. I’m a vital part of my family, placed right here by God to be an asset and assistance, playing out the role he created me for. If I lose sight of this, it can cause the entire family unit to collapse, possibly affecting future generations for years to come. All because of my selfishness! I think it’s very important to learn this lesson now in my stay-at-home years, because if it happens after I’m married and have a number precious children, it can come at an even higher price. This isn’t to say that I’m supposed to go around with only everyone else’s concerns and needs on my mind, though I just might ought to! I simply need to put my own wants and wishes after everyone else’s.
In his book; The Family, {previously Homemaking} J.R Miller describes what is needed to gain perfect harmony without dissension:
“In home-making each member of the family has a part, and the fullest happiness and blessedness of the home can be attained only when each one’s part is faithfully fulfilled. If any one member of the family fails in love or duty, the failure mars the whole household life, just as one discordant voice in a company of singers spoils the music, though all the others sing in perfect accord. ” When I finally learn that only when I put down my own self-centered thoughts and desires behind me and learn to serve others instead, something just clicks! Suddenly I’m no longer depressed and dejected, but joyful in seeing the fruits of my labors. My family is once more a whole unit, working together in harmony and accord. And all at once, I have time for my interests and desires, without sacrificing the peace and unison of my family. One verse that never fails in bringing me to my senses is this one:

“Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.” ~~Luke 6:38
I love my family. I adore my family! I wouldn't trade them for anything! Even past the never caught-up laundry, the markers on the walls, the diapers, messes, snacks, spilled kitty food, forts made from blankets and chairs, and the list is never ending. On the contrary, these things start to become endearing! Having a big family also adds to the excitement and joy. The more the merrier!
A source of encouragement outside of the Bible and my parents are books written on the subject of contentment and serving the family. The book by J.R. Miller that I previously mentioned is a wonderful one, as well as one called Passionate Housewives Desperate for God by Stacy McDonald and Jennie Chancey. And don’t forget to ask some wise ladies you know.
Emily: What normally fills your days?
Livvy: A lot! *laughing* Around here there’s no such thing as a normal day, and the only thing you can expect is the unexpected! Typically {I use this term lightly} my day starts off with rising and reading the Bible {I’m trying to get into a better habit with this, as it’s not always easy to remember. Of all things, too! }, putting on a fresh pot of coffee, starting breakfast, straightening up around the house, starting a load of laundry, feeding the children and then cleaning up from breakfast. Mom and I usually take turns doing breakfast. Mom’s favorite quick fixes are delightfully delicious wild-blueberry smoothies, and fresh brown eggs fried to perfection. After this the older children are off to the barn-less barnyard to take care of our animals. We are milking a goat and a little jersey now, so things have gotten slightly busier in the mornings. After taking care of the milk, we clean up around the house and then do schooling. Right now I’m focusing on learning French and studying herbology along with my regular subjects. After these things are done lunch is made and cleaned up after, then more studies, and then some time to rest. During the day, I will have sporadic opportunities to be on the computer. After a few hours mom or I start dinner, then it’s enjoyed, cleaned up from, and then we’re off to do family devotions and go to bed.

Emily: What are a few of your favorite things to do in your spare time?
Livvy: When I have a moment, some of my favorite things to do are quilt, sew, embroider, crochet, knit, blog, write, take an insane amount of pictures, read!, whip up something yummy and nourishing {if only to the soul}food in the kitchen, take a walk, listen to music, play the violin, sing, & talk with friends and family among other things.
Emily: What kind of role does your mother play in your life? Do you spend a lot of time with her?
Livvy: Oh yes! Mama is another best friend! We’re a team when it comes to most of the household duties, taking care of the children, and just about everything else that goes on around here. You might say that I’m an apprentice to mom, because she shows me how everything is done, and how to do it the right way. She is my very best teacher when it comes to learning the art of homemaking. Mom and I are always doing things together, talking and laughing, and just enjoying our time spent together. I’m always gleaning another shining bit of wisdom from my mother. She’s the heart of our home!
As Timothy Dwight, grandson of Sarah and Jonathan Edwards said;
“All that I am and all I will ever be I owe to my Mother”
Emily: Wasn't that so encouraging? Stay tuned for the next part of the interview! I'll post it sometime later in the week. Also, I have some exciting news about a giveaway too. I'll keep you updated, don't worry.
Until next time,